Friday, February 20, 2015

What to Eat . . . .?


Why on earth is it so difficult to lose weight or even just figure out what is best for our bodies. I am constantly trying to figure out a way to eat healthy. There are so many fads and diet “cults” out there. Let me preface this blog post by stating that I in NO WAY am judging what anyone eats or does. We all have to make our own decisions and conclusions of what is going to fuel our bodies. Those are the words that so often we don’t use when it comes to food, fuel. Ultimately the food we put in our body is supposed to be the fuel our bodies need to accomplish the work we need our bodies to do for us. For some people that means fueling your body to sit at a desk for 10 hours and then drive home to sit on a couch. For others it means fueling for the body to clean the house, run after the kids and entertain friends and family. For many of us it means not only fueling for the above activities but also those training runs that range from 2 miles to 22 miles of running/biking/swimming etc. For the athletes out there looking to drop a few pounds it becomes almost more difficult.

When I first started running the goal was to lose weight. So I jumped in full force with the running and signed up and loosely trained for a ½ Marathon. While that was the catalyst that got me running I am still struggling with the food aspect of this. Many people, myself included, eat food because we LOVE food, not because we NEED the fuel.  The other thing I didn’t realize was that as I started to run longer my appetite got bigger! My body needed more fuel.  I have always joked that I run because I love to eat. I used to get upset because my wonderful husband, who can get out and run an 8 min mile with no work and not seem out of breath at all, lost a ton of weight as we trained for that first ½ Marathon. He didn’t really need to and here I was needing to but I stayed the same (at least I wasn’t gaining was my motto). I realized after a while that his view of food was much different. He ate to LIVE and ran because he LIKED it. I ran because I LOVED to eat. Main difference is he looks at fuel as food; I look at it from a much more emotional point of view. Food is a comfort thing. I also love the different flavors and to bake in general. My main point in this rambling is that while I am running much more consistently and a little faster my weight is really not changed much in the 3 years.

I gave up on dieting a long time ago. I realize that “diets” don’t work. I am looking food now as fuel for my body. In the last year I have started to recognize that food is fuel. Don’t get me wrong calories in and calories out is still something I think about a LOT. However, I don’t really count them as much. I am trying to think of food as if I am hungry I eat, if I am not hungry I don’t eat. On the same vein what I am eating I am thinking about more carefully. I still eat junk food and processed food, but it is not as often. Before when I would see a cookie or piece of cake at the store I wouldn’t be that hesitate to buy it and eat the whole thing, then feel guilty afterwards. Today I can safely walk by the bakery and while it looks and smells good I don’t buy. Mainly because I am more aware of what could be in the processed cookies and cakes. I would much rather make my own with a few substitutions to make them healthier and less full of sugar and oils. Dieting may help you lose weight in the short term but they rarely help you keep the weight off. The key is to making healthier choices, fruits, veggies, all that stuff we know about.

This leads me to nutrition and running. I am sure most of you have heard it called rungry, it is horrible. I go out for a long run spend 2 hours running, I come home and drink my after run Chocolate low-fat milk and banana. Then finish cooling down, maybe eat breakfast with eggs, cheese, spinach (or other veggies) and toast. Then an hour later I will feel like I haven’t eaten in a week and could eat everything in the fridge. Rungry is not fun, and if the goal is to lose weight it is very frustrating. But I have started researching. As I start contemplating running a Marathon next January (2016) I recognize a few things:

1)      Food is fuel and your body needs it to operate properly and give you optimal performance. As fuel the more nutrient rich the better. This means shopping the outside of most stores and avoiding, for the most part, the inner aisles.

2)      Natural foods can taste just as good as the processed foods when cooked correctly!

3)      Not everyone needs the same fuel so don’t compare yourself to others

4)      Processed foods may seem easier, but sometimes it is faster and easier to just make food yourself

I won’t lie; I am researching different diets because some have some very interesting ideas. I have read books lately like The Fast Metabolism Diet, The Daniel Plan, The Whole Foods 30 Day Diet, as well as books and blogs about Paleo.  All seem to have the same underlying idea that the more natural and less processed the better. Don’t get me wrong they all have some major differences and I am not an expert on any of them to say one is not better than the other, nor have I tried to follow all of them.  I have just read the books. What I am learning in my research is what works for one person to fuel them and help maintain their goal may not work for the next. Everyone has different genes that play a role in how they process food. The basics are the same, but we need to educate yourselves and then do what is best for you. We also need to stop judging other people for doing it a different way.  If the goal is living a healthier life we will get there. It may take a while and we will always be learning, but even one step towards being healthier is better than nothing.
If you have any suggestions of healthy whole food ways to fuel during marathon training please let me know! I would love to hear what others do!

Friday, February 13, 2015

Fitting in the Workouts

Ever feel like there is just not enough time? I have been feeling very stressed and frustrated with myself lately.  I was told one time a saying from my mom, not sure where she got it from, “Some days I am a great mom, some days I am a great employee, rarely am I the both on the same day.” I feel I should tweak that statement a little to include runner as well. I love my runs and know they are important, but so often I feel like they are taking time away from my family. I struggle almost daily with the idea that I should be doing something other than my run. Or just as bad I struggle with myself and feel like if I was just a faster runner it would be so much easier to get the runs in and still have time for everything else.

So often I used to think that stay at home moms should have plenty of time to do everything. Haha! I was SOOO wrong. Now that I am a stay at home mom I feel so much more stressed and have even less time for my workouts it feels. I need to be working 4+ hours a day to keep up with the work. Then the cleaning (let’s face it that takes last priority). All this is around kids’ schedules of school, swim, tutoring, and homework, not to mention just playing with them. It seems like there should be plenty of time. But let me lay out the day. Wake up at 6-6:30 and it is get kids/husband lunches ready, and kids ready for school. By 8 it is out the door for school drop off. This is usually a longer process then I plan because I indulge my kids and walk them to class and then end up running into a parent or two to say hi to and talk with about life. So instead of getting home by 8:30 it is usually 9. Then I try on MWF to get my runs in, anywhere from 3-5 miles depending on the training plan. Due to my pace being so slow this is anywhere from a 36-60 min time. After you account for getting the little one set up with her movie or snack and all the other interruptions it is usually 10-10:30 before that is done.  From there I usually clean up a little (not a shower yet who has time for that). By 11 I MAY have time to sit down and get to my job. “Work” from 11 AM-2 PM interrupted frequently by youngest needing something or wanting help with her coloring or reading. Of course at some point in there I have to get lunch. At 2 we get ready to pick up the oldest from School. Again that rarely goes as fast as I hope pick up will go. So by the time we get home it is 2:45-3. Then it is snack time and homework until 3:45 and then off to Swim until 5:30-6. After that it is home for dinner/showers/cuddle time/bed. If I am lucky kids are in bed by 8-8:30 and actually settled by 9. At this point, if you are following along I still need to work for another 1-2 hours to get all my time and work done. Just looking at that typed out makes me cringe and think that running really should be cut out so I can clean more.  However, then the family would really dislike me! I would be so grouchy.

The perfect schedule would be me getting up at 5 AM and getting my work out in before 6:30. However, I am just not a morning person. 5AM just comes SOOOO early! I haven’t had my running partner lately due to life so I have no motivation to get out of bed! I am trying so hard to be perfect and fit it all in. I think the facts are we can’t always fit it all in. No matter how well we plan our schedule there has to be flexibility. Life is great at throwing us curve balls. I did a weekly schedule with cleaning and work outs. It included getting up every morning at 5 AM to get it all in. What it left out were important things like helping with homework and grocery shopping. I will have to revisit that some day soon.

For now I am going to do my best to keep plugging away and make time for the most important things, my family and taking care of myself. While some, and even myself sometimes, think my running time is selfish, I would argue it is needed. Without it I would probably gain even more weight (a subject for another blog post) and be very grouchy. So, my “me” time is running and the rest of the day is flexible depending on what my family needs. I try to remind myself that by doing this I am setting an example to my daughters that it is important to take care of yourself, even in busy times.  Life happens but how we react to it is the important part!